Surviving a long distance relationship ...the information you're looking for.Surviving a long distance relationship: You are looking for help to surviving a long distance relationship and that mean to me: - You think it’s possible. (You take time to learn about it) - You expect difficulties but you know that you can pass through it and that’s easier with some help. So you make a move to obtain your heart desire. Let me be honest, you will be the one who make it happen not the one who will force or convince the other to make it happen. I mean it’s important to make a commitment with you that says: What ever happen, I will not blame the other, and instead I will put my emotion on the side and keep searching a solution. The point is that anger stop creativity and when you meet the wonderful partner you fall in love with the small thing he does with creativity. (a special look he/she reserves for you, a little surprise without reason, the way he/she bites the life or only because he/she always laughing) Everything relate to creativity because you always need to seduce in relationship and so many ways can be use if you have enough imagination. Surviving a long distance relationship is difficult if you are always thinking about bad thing or give up. In life as well, the only way you can lost or fail is if you give up (in sport they said that talent is not enough). Take a look around you and you will see that happy peoples smile most of the time, don’t complaint about others and they seems to attract what they want and more ... they take time to listen others life. Would you want to make effort if someone always ask you for effort (and you really think you did and do your best), give you reprimand, make you feel bad (cheap, not valuable, no cooperative...) and talk about what is wrong. How long could you accept the situation? Five, ten, twenty calls? Men and women are different but are human kind and if you don’t like it, he or she will not like it too. So if you think: “Is it the way I would prefer to hear it.” You will probably avoid bad emotional reaction. Trying to put in the position of the other is always a good way to understand why or how he say, feel or react like that. It’s very difficult and frustrating to forget yourself to be able to do that, but getting result faster and with less effort will give you soon satisfaction. Do you think it’s a big price to pay to obtain what you want and surviving your long distance relationship? It seems to be easier to avoid than resolve problem. Choose if you want funny, intense and quality moments or hang up the phone with anger, doubt and fear running through your body. At the end if you don’t give up and stay cool, funny, pleasant... We all know peoples that attract attention and make you feel great. Make you want to spend time with. Act that way and you will produce a better effect. When people feel down or uncertain a little spark can change everything. IT’s why I will finish with this simple advice: Always smiling when you will talk to your love one on the phone. How? The smile will pass through the line and put the other in a good mood whatever his emotion at that time and that little thing will help you surviving a long distance relationship. I tried it a lot of time whit different people and it work well.
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